Blending Wisdom and Experience: A Journey to Self-Prioritization
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Chapter 1: The Start of a Journey
Navigating the roles of a stay-at-home mom, caregiver, and writer specializing in self-improvement and parenting has not been a straightforward path. The road to self-love and placing my needs first was filled with challenges.
What do I mean by that?
It’s understandable if you find it confusing. I often grapple with my own thoughts, but I will attempt to express what I'm trying to convey.
It's intriguing how exploring a specific field can lead you down unexpected avenues. Allow me to elaborate. When I began writing about self-improvement, my goal was to explore the concept of lifelong learning to enhance one’s overall well-being. However, during my journey, I encountered various authors discussing self-prioritization and preservation, which subtly shifted my focus.
Rather than a complete deviation, it was more like a smaller path within the same realm.
Section 1.1: Realizations on Self-Improvement
During this exploration, I discovered the practical aspects of self-improvement. I came to understand that to truly grow, I needed uninterrupted time dedicated solely to myself. Without placing my own needs above others', I struggled to carve out my space.
Consider this: whenever I attempted to write, it coincided with someone else’s meal time or a study session. There were always errands to run, like driving someone to find stationery. As a result, my personal goals often took a backseat.
Section 1.2: The Importance of Prioritization
For many mothers, the scenario I described is all too familiar. That metaphorical backseat isn’t just a concept; it often feels very real, making it challenging to reclaim time for oneself. This realization—that my lack of prioritization was a significant hurdle—was pivotal in my journey.
I consider myself lucky to have recognized this with help from those who ventured into the self-improvement space before me, making it easier for newcomers like myself.
Chapter 2: Claiming Your Time
By taking cues from these pioneers, I gradually carved out my own space. Now, I write in the mornings after sending my children off to school and before tackling my household responsibilities. This routine allows me to kickstart my day productively and stay committed to my writing goals.
In the video "How to Grow in Wisdom | Proverbs 19:20 | Our Daily Bread Video Devotional," the importance of wisdom in personal growth is explored. This aligns beautifully with my journey of self-discovery and prioritization.
To solidify this commitment, I believe it’s essential to find your ideal time and defend it fiercely. Unless there's a significant emergency, I'm dedicated to this time slot, come what may.
In another insightful video, "Scott Valins on Closing $172+ Million in Loans as the Co-Founder & CEO of GoRascal Inc.," we see how prioritization in business can lead to substantial success, echoing the themes of self-prioritization in personal life.