Transforming Your Life After Quitting Your Job: 12 Months In
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Chapter 1: The Journey of Change
Reflecting on the past year since I left my job reveals numerous valuable lessons that could inspire you if you're contemplating a similar change.
This experience may seem like a fairy tale where everything turns out perfectly. I envisioned a vibrant future, filled with joy and my former boss pleading with me to stay. However, reality was far different.
Even after leaving, we all have a "boss" of sorts. For me, it’s the various tech platforms I depend on to manage my online enterprise.
A humorous observation arose from a LinkedIn post where I shared news about my wife's pregnancy alongside a baby picture. While most comments were heartwarming, a recurring theme emerged: numerous individuals remarked, "Your baby will be your new boss." It made me chuckle, and honestly, they might be right. Regardless, my love for my daughter will remain unwavering.
As the year progressed, I've encountered significant changes worth sharing, especially for those who have ever considered leaving their jobs.
Working from home can be isolating
One aspect of my previous job I genuinely miss is the camaraderie with my colleagues. We formed friendships that extended beyond work, sharing countless cups of coffee at our employer's expense.
Additionally, I cherished the relationships I built with clients, often turning their negative perceptions of our company around. Now that I'm working from home, I won't sugarcoat it—it can be quite lonely at times. Fortunately, my wife is still around, though she anticipates returning to her office soon.
However, it's not all despair. I've found that networking online has become essential to combat the solitude. While these relationships are valuable, they still don't quite match the dynamic of an office where everyone knows each other.
People may doubt you until you prove them wrong
I thrive on being seen as the underdog. Many were skeptical of my decision to leave my job, with critics voicing negative opinions and making dire predictions about my future.
Interestingly, those same critics have recently reached out on LinkedIn, curious about how I managed to establish an online business. It’s amusing how people dismiss you until you surpass their expectations, only to later seek guidance on achieving similar success.
Lesson learned: avoid negativity and share your journey and achievements with others.
A few missteps could lead you back to a 9-to-5 job
While this statement may sound alarming, it's not intended to be. The notion that a few mistakes could force me back into the confines of a 9-to-5 job is, in fact, a motivating factor for me. Each day brings its own set of challenges and risks.
Although it's unlikely that a series of blunders would send me back to a cubicle, the possibility remains. Thus, I strive to stay grounded, alert, and mindful of the potential pitfalls of working online.
Remember: don't become complacent after quitting your job. The chance of needing to find employment again should serve as a motivation.
You can achieve financial success online if you're truly dedicated
On a brighter note, I’ve discovered that I can earn more money without a conventional job than I ever did while employed. When you take charge of your work, it becomes easier to apply the business acumen gained from prior employment to your own ventures.
Once you break into the online income landscape, it reshapes your perspective. You begin to see endless possibilities, limited only by the hours available in a day. The internet continues to expand, with many people yet to come online, presenting vast opportunities for growth.
As a result, the efforts you invest daily start to yield compounding returns over time, meaning you won't have to exert as much effort in the future. It's a fascinating principle that even Einstein would admire.
Self-accountability can be challenging
No one is there to wake me up each morning—I have the freedom to sleep in if I choose. While this might sound idyllic, it can be intimidating. I must be self-driven to maintain this lifestyle; my income hinges on my daily actions.
Though it’s not a simple adjustment, it is something you can adapt to over time. Thankfully, I’ve always been proactive and haven’t waited for someone to direct me on what to do.
For those who thrive on guidance, consider starting a side hustle before fully committing to self-employment; otherwise, you might struggle to adapt.
Regret can linger if you avoid taking career risks
To be candid, had I not taken the leap to quit my job, I'd be left wondering what could have been. Many remain in secure yet monotonous positions due to fear of potential pitfalls.
However, jobs can also come with their own risks. I learned this firsthand when I was let go from a role I adored in 2019. My former colleagues faced a similar fate in March 2020 when large corporations cut costs by letting go of many employees.
The risks associated with traditional employment and self-employment may not be as distinct as one might believe. Yet, if you never attempt to work for yourself, the likelihood of harboring regrets later in life increases.
Take the plunge—you can always find another job if necessary.
Collaborating with a partner simplifies online income generation
I attempted to navigate this path solo in the past, but it didn't yield success. This is my fourth attempt, and it has finally paid off.
I’ve learned that building a business with a partner can be advantageous. My collaborator, Todd Brison, complements my skills perfectly. I bring expertise in blogging, entrepreneurship, finance, and marketing, while he excels in traditional writing, grammar, publishing, copywriting, and email marketing.
Having a partner strengthens your efforts.
Keep motivational quotes close by
I have a particular quote that has guided me throughout my journey of leaving the traditional workforce. Jim Carrey once said, “You can fail at what you don’t want, so you might as well take a chance on doing what you love.”
Having such quotes nearby can serve as reminders during moments of self-doubt, reinforcing the reasons behind your pursuits.
Avoid burnout to prevent unwise decisions
In my first year without a job, anxiety drove me to overcompensate and work excessively to avoid potential disasters. This ultimately led to burnout last year.
One late night, a simple click of my mouse resulted in a significant loss of money, leaving me feeling foolish for days. Once I recovered, I recognized that my mistake stemmed from the burnout I experienced, not from a lack of intelligence.
Don’t let anxiety push you into overworking yourself to the point of burnout.
Building your own venture is immensely fulfilling
To conclude, here I am a year after quitting my job, unsure of what the future held. It has been a wild ride, and the most significant lesson I’ve learned is that creating something of my own is far more rewarding than contributing to someone else's vision.
While my venture may not reach monumental heights like those achieved in corporate settings, it is entirely mine—free from office politics, drama, and compromises.
The fulfillment derived from this freedom is well worth the leap of faith required to leave a job behind.
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